This dynamic 3 week teaching series is all about how God is the source of true love & how sex, love & relationships are God’s idea & beautiful when enjoyed His way in marriage! Through the use of humor, stories & some break-through medical research, students will be encouraged & challenged to look at the topics of love, sexuality & relationships through the lens of scripture in this relevant series!
#1 Know Your Audience
In any worship setting, knowing the people who you are trying to take with you into God’s presence is so important! Now, I’m not saying you have to be personally acquainted with each student at your gathering, but rather that you should have a general idea about the type of group you’re leading. Every group of youth will have a different flavor, a unique style, and its own set of challenges that you’ll need to break through. For example, the teens I currently lead in Fairbanks, Alaska are a different breed than those I previously led in Sacramento, California! All groups of youth are unique. When you look at it this way, your eyes will be opened to how the Lord would have you lead the specific, unique group of teens He has called you to.
With this in mind, pay attention to the little things – for example, the way your teens respond to certain songs. Take notice of the styles they prefer. Don’t be afraid to change things up! And don’t take it personally if you try something new and don’t get the reaction you were looking for. Of course we’d hope for our teens to press through and worship no matter what, but let’s be realistic. Sometimes teenagers need a little bit of extra help to engage during worship. So pay attention to the way your teens respond (or don’t respond). Learn from them and let it grow you as a leader!
#2 Don’t Be Afraid to Go Deep
Your teens want to go deep, trust me. As the Psalmist so eloquently states in Psalm 42:1 “As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, my God.” There is an innate desire and longing in every human being to know and experience God’s love and power. You are actually depriving your teens if you only “skim the surface” and never lead them to the depths of God’s presence that they long to go to.
Of course, you aren’t capable of leading someone to a place you haven’t first been yourself. As a worship leader, don’t deprive your own spirit. Deliberately spend time in the presence of God daily. Allow Him to take you to deeper depths than you’ve ever been. As you do so, you’ll see how this directly affects your worship leading. There have been many instances in my life that I can specifically pin-point when God did a special work in my life, and immediately following there was a dynamic shift in the worship culture of our youth group. I’m telling you, whatever is in you will leak. It affects your worship team, and it affects your teens. Go deep. Take them with you.
#3 Invest in Your Worship Team
I’ve been on several different worship teams, beginning in my junior high years. Some experiences have been amazing, while others were less than impressive. What made the difference didn’t so much have to do with the songs we were playing, the skill level of the musicians, or anything like that. It had everything to do with the community of people I led worship with. I’ve played with several teams that were inwardly focused, not inclusive of others, and very much cliques. This stunts growth in a team and keeps others from reaching their full potential in using their God-given gifts to glorify Him. You must keep the doors open, and your eyes open, so that others are included and your team grows! When a team is inwardly focused, the atmosphere can be dull, versus a team that is community-oriented and focused on leading others into the presence of God with them. The latter will cultivate a free and inviting atmosphere where others desire to participate in worship.
Also, pour into your team as much as possible. Invest in them. Duplicate yourself so that the next generation can carry the torch when it’s their turn. Equip them spiritually and practically. Set them up for success. See them as your very own disciples that God has placed under your leadership for a specific time and purpose! When they’re well-equipped and they begin to take ownership, it definitely encourages the youth in your service to press in even more.
Don’t forget – you are making more of an impact than you know! Let the Holy Spirit lead and guide you as you continue your journey of leading the next generation in worship!
Kayla Kitay is an Intern at Fairbanks First Assembly & oversees the worship ministry of Vertical NextGen . You can Follow Kayla on Instagram.
Kevin Moore is a Church Planter & the Lead Pastor of “The Church @ Visalia” in California. A former veteran Youth Pastor, Kevin possess a wealth of wisdom & experience regarding all things youth ministry & coaches & equips youth pastors around the nation via “Youth Ministry University.” In this insightful interview Kevin hits on the following topics…
- Why every Youth Pastor & Youth Leader should enroll in “Youth Ministry University!“
- “You are not God’s gift to youth ministry, youth ministry is God’s gift to you!”
- “Relationships trump everything” when it comes to youth ministry & how to build them!
- “Don’t forget your core” students & how to connect with them!
- “Parents are not your enemy, they are your friends” & how to build bridges with them!
- “Bigger Isn’t better, better is better” & how to build a healthy youth ministry!
This is a must-watch interview for all Youth Pastors & Leaders!
For all things youth ministry & leadership, follow Kevin on twitter @growmooretv
Here are 16 ideas to help make this your best year of youth ministry ever! (In no particular order)
#1 Get A Coach
- If you want something you’ve never had this year, you’ve got to do something you’ve never done before! Invest in yourself & take your leadership & youth ministry to the next level by getting an expert coach in your corner. Youth Ministry University launches in March by youth ministry coach Kevin Moore. From my time being coached by Kevin, I would highly recommend registering ASAP!
#2 Harness the Arts
- God created music. Teens love music. So create a worship culture & get your students involved using their musical gifts on your worship team! Here’s how: School of the Rock: 5 Keys to Building Great Youth Worship Teams
#3 Cast Vision for Campus Clubs
- One of the greatest rewards in youth ministry comes when your students rise up to reach their peers on their own turf through launching & leading campus ministry clubs! Here’s how: Campus Awakening: 7 Keys to Mobilize Your Students to Launch Dynamic Christian Clubs
#4 Grow Big by Growing Small
- Youth ministry is all about relationships! Empower your leaders & build deeper relationships between your students by integrating small groups into your ministry! Here’s how: 4 Payoffs for Building Prolific Small Groups
#5 Don’t Take the Summer Off
- Summer is not a time to hit the snooze button, it’s a time to see your ministry surge as you equip & reach new students like never before! Here’s how: LAUNCHING INTO SUMMER: 3 Reasons To Launch A Youth Summer Internship & 3 Steps How!
#6 Deputize Your Leaders
- To reach the hundreds & thousands of students in your city you are going to need a large & diverse leadership team to serve alongside of you! Recruit them, honor them, equip them & empower them! Here’s how (With sarcasm): 4 Ways To Shrink Your Volunteer Leadership Team
#7 Impress Parents
- “If you are not ministering well to parents, you are not ministering well to teenagers.” – Kevin Moore. Start by making sure your youth gathering is a safe place for teens & then continue by communicating with parents weekly via email to update them on calendar events & sharing resources. Here’s more ideas: Youth Pastor Tips – Working with Parents
#8 Feed Your Guests Cookies
- Give your best effort to make your first time guests feel like a million bucks! Have your door greeters warmly welcome them as they enter. Honor them from the stage & have everyone cheer for them. Create an environment to meet them personally & give them a gift. We feed our guests fresh-baked cookies & raffle a gift card for one of them to win. Here’s how: Youth Ministry Essentials: 4 step visitor follow-up strategy
#9 Party With Old People
- At least twice a year we take our students to minister to the elderly of our community in assisted living homes. I’m always amazed to see how some of our shyest students shine the brightest during these outreaches! Just sing a few carols or hymns, pass out handwritten cards & then equip your students to sit & visit with the elderly. It’s a simple way to teach your students what it means to give.
#10 Build a Bridge with Your Kids Pastor
- Bring unity & alignment between the kids & youth ministries by dreaming & planning with your kids pastor on how to effectively begin building relationships with your new incoming middle schoolers & their parents. Ideas may include picking a promotion date & having an open house night during your youth gathering for new middle schoolers & their parents to come & meet the youth staff.
#11 Don’t Go with the Flow
- Don’t get stuck in the rut of predictability. It’s a new year & probably time to try something new during your weekly gathering! Keep things fresh & your students engaged by taking your flow-chart or service order & changing up the sequence.
#12 Take a Day Off
- Work hard, but also rest hard! If you desire to make it for the long haul & have the greatest impact possible on your students, then you better actually take a full day off to rest, hear from God & have fun. There may even be times that you need to let your students, leaders & fellow staff members know of your boundaries!
#13 Enjoy a Spring Staycation
- Yes some students & their families will travel for spring break, but many of them don’t! Therefore, enjoy a spring staycation by planning a fun & affordable activity or event to enjoy with your students each day of spring break week! Meet for lunch, go to the movies, etc. This is a great way to make connections with new students!
#14 Send Snail Mail
- In this age of texting & high-speed internet, students rarely receive any snail mail. So order some bulk postcards with your youth ministry logo & info on them & write hand written postcards to your new guests each week thanking them for coming. Also write them to your core students & leaders telling them how awesome they are as often as you can. It’s crazy how something so simple & small can do something so big!
#15 Get New Eye Balls
- We all develop blind spots over time. Therefore, humble yourself & invite in a trusted pastor or leader who is familiar with youth ministry to watch your weekly youth gathering from start to finish & give you constructive criticism on anything & everything! From games, to transitions, to your message, to how you welcome guests, etc. Taking this kind of inventory will only serve to strengthen you!
#16 Give Your Pastor Kudos
- Randomly stop by your Pastor’s office & thank him for believing in you & for allowing you to be part his team. Find time to honor him in front of your leaders & students & thank him for his heart to reach the next generation! This will bless him & bless you.
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- Everything you need to know to mobilize your students to begin launching Christian clubs on their campus in the new year!
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- 15 inspiring quotes on faith, leadership & ministry from one of America’s top Youth Pastors!
- The title says it all! These are 3 components we have found that will help you to create excitement & momentum around your youth ministry!
- This post wrestles with the topic of maturity & asks the questions “How can we as Christian Leaders grow to fuller maturity & how can we better equip the emerging leaders under our care to grow to fuller maturity?